"18 Months: A Memoir of a Marriage Lost to Gender Identity"

Lots of people know this. 

But this sounds like an interesting book--though the review is probably enough for me.

I treat this stuff all straight, as it were. That is: I usually treat it as if all the participants were sincere. Because what's most important is that gender ideology is incoherent. Crazy. Absurd. 

And you can't demand that others say--let alone believe--false things about you because you want them to.

But most everybody knows that the participants in all this are largely or mostly mentally unstable or insincere or deluded or something else or all of the above. 

Review worth a read.